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The Boy Crisis Meets A Return to Eros – A Dialogue between Dr. Warren Farrell & Dr. Marc Gafni – Part 1

Warren Farrell, Dr. Marc Gafni, A return to eros, #metooJoin Dr. Warren Farrell as he gives a picture of The Boy Crisis, its connections to school shootings, and his vision of where we can infuse hope and wisdom into the #metoo movement.

In this video, you will learn…

  • Why boys are falling behind girls – especially in reading and writing – in all sixty-three of the largest developed nations.
  • How plastics in our water causes girls to develop more quickly and boys to develop even more slowly.
  • How boys are pushed toward pornography early in life.
  • How society systematically sets up men and boys to see themselves as disposable.

Enjoy the video here:


Summary

Warren Farrell is spending his life thinking about men and women. This intimacy with the science around boys’ lives brings him painfully face-to-face with the increasing challenges boys face.

When he started seeing the results of PISA, the international exams for high schools, come in, he saw in all sixty-three of the largest developed nations boys were falling behind girls – especially in reading and writing – the biggest predictors of future success in developing countries.

Warren begins his exploration with the biological changes in boys due to the leaching of phthalates from plastics into rivers. Once phthalates are in our rivers, they are in our drinking water, leading to world-wide changes for boys in IQ because phthalates mimic estrogen causing girls to develop more quickly and boys to develop even more slowly.

These same boys, due to this painful physical immaturity and lack of emotional and social intelligence, are pushed toward pornography early in life—after learning that the risk of rejection around their societally-expected-role-of-making-the-first-move-romantically is too great a cost.

Pornography is about access to a variety of attractive women, without fear of rejection, at a price our precious boys feel they can afford. The more they use pornography for pseudo attempts to meet their erotic needs, the more the gray matter of their brain deteriorates and they get addicted to dopamine. The more they get addicted to dopamine, the more they want women to perform the way women in pornography do, causing woman to feel objectified.

Warren digs ever deeper into father-son relationships and how society systematically sets up men and boys to see themselves as disposable. 

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